Wednesday, March 27, 2002 :::
Wow, attempting to post yesterday was impossible since every time I tried to access the site it was down.
Anyhow, here's my planned post for TUESDAY, MARCH 26.
For those of you confused. I am trying to get back on schedule. I was posting the previous day's post in the early a.m. hours of the next day ;-)
A word on the fear of being alone.
What's so wrong with being alone? How can you consider sharing yourself with someone when you can't stand your own company? Is it a fear of the uncertainty of whether or not you will be permanently alone? Is it so wrong to be alone or does society dictate that every individual must be paired-off?
The fear of being alone steers some individuals into wrong choices. For instance, just picking someone as a mate even though that someone isn't quite their type. Remember: ego fears loneliness when the soul is debilitated.
Isn't it better to be alone than to be among bad company? That is, assuming that you are not your own bad company.
A method for enjoying yourself while solo is to have dates with yourself. Yes, have a date with yourself one evening and have fun at it. Try to impress yourself throughout the date just as you would go out of your way to impress someone else. Make it a point to discover yourself and what makes you appealing to others. It is all about getting your solo persona in-synch with your coupled persona.
Song clip for this post: Yes' Owner Of A Lonely Heart.
Today's Quote:
Like yourself, Embrace yourself, Love yourself.
